We expected changes in a post pandemic China, but two things we did not foresee was the explosion of a coffee cafe culture and the rise of the snack shop. While the first was a bit of a shock, the second was not such a leap of creation. It is no secret that the Chinese appetite is voracious. Their consumption capability is a continual source of fascination for me. I tease my students frequently that their eating schedule is akin to a hobbit's schedule; first breakfast at 7am, second breakfast at 9am, morning snack at 10ish, lunch at 11:30am, post-nap snack at 2:30pm, afternoon tea at 4pm, first dinner at 5:30pm, second dinner at 7pm, third dinner at 9:30pm, and night snack at 11pm. I have yet to have a student tell me I am wrong, if anything they will insert another meal form into my list.
Saturday, March 29, 2025
The Rise of the Chinese Snack Shop Empire
We expected changes in a post pandemic China, but two things we did not foresee was the explosion of a coffee cafe culture and the rise of the snack shop. While the first was a bit of a shock, the second was not such a leap of creation. It is no secret that the Chinese appetite is voracious. Their consumption capability is a continual source of fascination for me. I tease my students frequently that their eating schedule is akin to a hobbit's schedule; first breakfast at 7am, second breakfast at 9am, morning snack at 10ish, lunch at 11:30am, post-nap snack at 2:30pm, afternoon tea at 4pm, first dinner at 5:30pm, second dinner at 7pm, third dinner at 9:30pm, and night snack at 11pm. I have yet to have a student tell me I am wrong, if anything they will insert another meal form into my list.
Saturday, March 22, 2025
Start Small
The blog has suffered thus far this year.
When my beginning-of-the-year personal reading and writing beach retreat was unexpectedly flipped into a scramble to reach the other side of the globe in order wrestle with a devastating loss, pausing to write seemed indulgent in the following days.
Returning to Asia, with a mere ten days between sorrow and a semester, our attempt to reset ourselves was thwarted with food poisoning. Writing was pushed aside.
We returned to our hutong fourteen hours before we began teaching, to a very full work load as another foreigner was not hired.
Being tossed into this semester in the wobbliest of ways has meant discombobulation has been a near constant state. Life feels a bit more fragile. Emotions seem to surface a bit more. Decisions seem to bear a bit more weight.
A friend messaged me the other day, writing: I don't think we are ever the same people again after losing a parent.
This was a sentence I needed to read. With my dad's death, our world did not crumble, but there has been such a subtle shift within our souls that has felt precarious. Thus, grappling with words and stories has edged closer to battle rather than solace.
The blog post that was due to be published next was our 2024 ABCs. My annual reflection on our year which is always a behemoth to write, but such a delight to craft because Zach and I have so much fun reminiscing about our wild adventures. It was in the outline draft mode before the first of the year, ready to be filled in on that beach retreat. In the past three months, I have opened it more times than I want to admit, only to sit and stare. For all the joy, delight, and incredible moments it held, Zach and I now must, and have, acknowledged that 2024 holds so many lasts for us.
For both sides of our families.
At this point, I must be honest in that I do not know if I can finish it without it taking on a patina of sorrow. My want to finish a reflection piece before stepping into the tales of this new year has been the internal struggle these weeks in facing this blog. In the past few days, I have realized that I cannot let that post be my barrier to the other life stories worthy of chronicling. Therefore, the 2024 ABCs is going to be left in draft mode. One day this year, I may be able to face it without tears. One day, I may decide to parcel its stories into smaller posts, marring my effort to adhere to a semi-true chronological life timeline. I do not know. As for the stories woven within the first two months of 2025, where joy and grief walked hand-in-hand, one day I will face those as well.
As for now, I am taking the small act to be OK with putting some stories on hold. Our life is wild, crazy, so full, and I need this blog to make sense of it most of the time.









